Communication is the key

Communication is the key

Communication is key to any relationship. When we get annoyed, it can be so easy to rant and rave or alternatively to punish via the silent treatment. But what if we explained to our partner that we feel angry/hurt/upset and that we need some time to gather our...
A Little Bit of Crazy Is Alright!

A Little Bit of Crazy Is Alright!

I don’t know about you, but sometimes I think I take life too seriously – and if I’m being serious all the time, I lose that element of ‘craziness’ and being a bit spontaneous and fun. Having fun in your relationship is super important but it can be challenging to...
Love is sweet

Love is sweet

After a more relaxed holiday season, many of us suddenly find ourselves back in the daily grind of work and the routine of life. That can be a bit of an anti-climax after enjoying time with your partner, family and friends and it’s easy to forget to prioritise...
How To Make Your Wife Love You

How To Make Your Wife Love You

So here’s the interesting thing – feedback I’ve received shows that men seem to find idearly a particularly useful resource. They want to know ’how to make your wife love you’ because quite frankly, a woman’s emotional needs can be a little bit confusing! I was...
How To Stay Connected In Love

How To Stay Connected In Love

Are you busy with work commitments? Do your kids (much as you love them) take up a lot of your time and energy? Are you struggling with pressures such as emotional stress, financial worries? Do you spend more time than you would like to on electronic devices? It’s no...
Love Is All You Need

Love Is All You Need

I once heard someone say that the idearly App is not needed – that if you loved your partner you would already do all the things that idearly prompts you to do. I agree …… in the early years of a relationship…. but as time marches on and we are faced with a whole load...
How To Improve Your Relationship

How To Improve Your Relationship

Sometimes I observe couples and they seem to be totally in-synch with each other. Other times, I observe couples where I sense a ‘dis-connect’. I think it’s natural for relationships to cycle through some ups and downs – you just want to experience more ‘ups’ than...
How To Maintain A Good Relationship

How To Maintain A Good Relationship

How to maintain a good relationship? Give without expecting to receive. If you show you care, and give your partner love in a variety of ways, you will notice that over time, your partner will naturally start to reciprocate. Experiment with all the different ways you...
Just because……

Just because……

Was just thinking how we celebrate an anniversary with our loved ones – we make an extra effort to give flowers or a little gift, maybe catch a movie, or go out for dinner. What if we celebrated a ‘non-anniversary’ – we made an extra effort to...
Show you care on random days

Show you care on random days

Isn’t it interesting how we make an effort to show our partner we love them just because it’s Valentines Day?? How much more meaningful it is to show you care on random days. The idearly prompts will help to give you ideas to show how much you love your...