by Narelle Wynter | Jan 25, 2021 | Uncategorized
Not sure who wrote that quote but it’s pretty profound. Idearly is not a counselling website or app – however I have studied Psychology in my degree and have been married for more than 30 years so I hope those experiences provide me with some wisdom that...
by Narelle Wynter | Dec 7, 2020 | Uncategorized
I think it’s human nature to crave security – security around our job, our finances, our health and our love. As children, we look for security in our parents’ or carers’ unconditional love and as we move into adulthood, and find our life partner, we expect our love...
by Narelle Wynter | Sep 28, 2020 | Uncategorized
Why can love be so confusing? Well, for one thing, we tend to give love to our partner as we would wish to receive it. If, for example, you love to have chores done for you without being asked, then you may do that for your partner as well. But if your partner feels...
by Narelle Wynter | Aug 30, 2020 | Uncategorized
Don’t marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can’t live without’ – James Dobson. Let your partner know that they are your ‘rock’ and show them in lots of little ways how much you love them – with your...
by Narelle Wynter | May 20, 2020 | Uncategorized
I was in the shopping mall the other day and as I was going down the escalator, a young couple with two little boys was heading up – well, almost. The mum and two boys hopped onto the escalator and the dad refused to move from where he was standing at the...
by Narelle Wynter | Apr 22, 2020 | Uncategorized
Are you going a bit crazy being cooped up with your partner in isolation? Some days I truly wonder if I’m going mad! Maybe not so much because of love, but because of the unusual circumstances we find ourselves living in. I feel like I’m chained to my...
by Narelle Wynter | Mar 30, 2020 | Uncategorized
We are indeed living in challenging times amongst the need to self-quarantine and self-isolate. However, this doesn’t mean we have to self-implode. It means maintaining social distance from friends and loved ones for our health and theirs but we most certainly...
by Narelle Wynter | Feb 8, 2020 | Uncategorized
Touch is of course one of our love languages. Some people are very touchy-feely and others are not really into touching. However if your partner loves to be touched and yet you don’t especially like it, it’s worthwhile exploring how you can incorporate...
by Narelle Wynter | Jan 22, 2020 | Uncategorized
My husband and I have recently come back from a glamping retreat. The idearly app had sent me a prompt to organise a weekend away, and I thought, ‘You know what? Let’s do it’ and the universe provided just the right retreat. Whilst at the retreat, we...
by Narelle Wynter | Jan 15, 2020 | Uncategorized
I believe that a long-lasting relationship with true love requires unconditional love. And what exactly does that mean? It means…. well, to love without putting any stipulations on the giving of love. Too many times we want to change something about our partner, or...
