True Love

True Love

I believe that a long-lasting relationship with true love requires unconditional love. And what exactly does that mean? It means…. well, to love without putting any stipulations on the giving of love. Too many times we want to change something about our partner, or...
Keep your Heart Open

Keep your Heart Open

Unconditional love is key to a long-term happy relationship. It is perfectly normal to feel irritated by aspects of our partner’s characteristics or habits at times – nobody is perfect and life stressors can impact our tolerance. We’ve all heard the saying...
Celebrate!

Celebrate!

Happy New Year and may 2020 bring you health, wealth and happiness and a deep sense of fulfilment in your relationships.   Christmas and New Year can be extraordinarily joyful times for people, and can also be tinged with sadness or tragedy, depending what’s...
Sailing the Seven Seas

Sailing the Seven Seas

New and shiny always seems so exciting – a new bike, a new pair of shoes, a new house. What about relationships? They start out new and shiny too. And over time, relationships can have their ups and downs just like everything else in life and the shine can wear...
Communication is the key

Communication is the key

Communication is key to any relationship. When we get annoyed, it can be so easy to rant and rave or alternatively to punish via the silent treatment. But what if we explained to our partner that we feel angry/hurt/upset and that we need some time to gather our...
Add a Sparkle of Spontaneity

Add a Sparkle of Spontaneity

I don’t know about you, but sometimes I think I take life too seriously – and if I’m being serious all the time, I lose that element of ‘craziness’ and being a bit spontaneous and fun. Having fun in your relationship is super important but it can be challenging to...
Love is sweet

Love is sweet

After a more relaxed holiday season, many of us suddenly find ourselves back in the daily grind of work and the routine of life. That can be a bit of an anti-climax after enjoying time with your partner, family and friends and it’s easy to forget to prioritise...
How To Make Your Wife Love You

How To Make Your Wife Love You

So here’s the interesting thing – feedback I’ve received shows that men seem to find idearly a particularly useful resource. They want to know ’how to make your wife love you’ because quite frankly, a woman’s emotional needs can be a little bit confusing! I was...
How To Stay Connected In Love

How To Stay Connected In Love

Are you busy with work commitments? Do your kids (much as you love them) take up a lot of your time and energy? Are you struggling with pressures such as emotional stress, financial worries? Do you spend more time than you would like to on electronic devices? It’s no...
Love Is All You Need

Love Is All You Need

I once heard someone say that the idearly App is not needed – that if you loved your partner you would already do all the things that idearly prompts you to do. I agree …… in the early years of a relationship…. but as time marches on and we are faced with a whole load...