Reading books, watching You Tube videos, attending relationship courses or therapy sessions – these are all useful resources to help you keep the spark alive in your relationship. Better still, these materials are more effective when you engage in the resources with your partner. For example, try reading a book together in bed. Use a jointly watched video to stimulate conversation around your relationship. You’ll be surprised at the connection you create, simply by showing you are commited to learning more about creating the most fulfilling relationship you can possibly have. But don’t overdo it – a gentle approach is always a good idea, especially if your partner is a little resistant to new ideas!

This is a must-read for any couple. Learn about your love languages, your partner’s love languages and why we sometimes feel that our ‘love tank’ is empty.

This is a classic when it comes to understanding what makes men tick versus what makes women tick. With understanding, comes tolerance for each other’s differences, making for a more enriched relationship.

In order to love ourself and therefore love another, we must learn how to be vulnerable. This is a very thought-provoking and inspiring book that will deepen your love for all significant people in your life. Well worth a read.

This book is perfect for anyone seeking to understand the principles contributing to a successful relationship. There are some fabulous quizzes that can be used to help you stay connected in your marriage.