My husband and I have recently come back from a glamping retreat. The idearly app had sent me a prompt to organise a weekend away, and I thought, ‘You know what? Let’s do it’ and the universe provided just the right retreat. Whilst at the retreat, we were pampered with a most delightful relaxation massage, sauna, meditation, daily yoga sessions, nature walks – you name it, we experienced it! But it wasn’t all relaxation and bliss – we also had some work to do, as part of the retreat revolved around setting our intentions for 2020. You may have many goals in the various areas of your life eg wealth, friends, health, social, and so on, but one really important area to consider is your relationship with your spouse or partner. What are your beliefs around your relationship? Do you believe you deserve intimacy, companionship and security? Or is there self-talk going on in your head around not being worthy, or accepting less than you want, or being unlovable? Our subconscious has a lot to answer for in how we experience life generally and in how our relationships develop. So maybe the beginning of a new year and new decade is as good a time as any to sit down with a journal in a quiet space, and write where you feel your relationship is currently at, where you would like it to be, what is blocking you from having what your heart desires, and ideas on actions you can take to help bring to fruition the abundance of love in your relationship. In the meantime, check out this really cute gift idea – imagine how your partner would feel if they hopped into bed and saw these on the pillows!!