I believe that a long-lasting relationship with true love requires unconditional love. And what exactly does that mean? It means…. well, to love without putting any stipulations on the giving of love. Too many times we want to change something about our partner, or expect something in return, but just love them, and they will be the best version of themselves, knowing you are loving them unconditionally. Interesting feedback from people using the idearly app, is that when you start expressing your love more often using the random acts of thoughtfulness prompts, your partner will begin to reciprocate. It seems that if you are meeting your partner’s love needs, they will start to fulfil yours – try it for a few months and see what happens!
When we go for a coffee my partner looks everywhere else but at me when I talk to him
Some people do find eye contact difficult. Have you let your partner know that you notice he doesnt look at you and you are interested in learning why that is? If it’s just too uncomfortable for him, you could even suggest he look at your mouth and try making eye contact momentarily. Over time, he might find it more comfortable to meet your gaze.